Sermon: “Strongest Person in the Room” by Sister Stephanie Aquire

Theme:

• The sermon centers on the biblical concept of self-control (temperance) as the true measure of strength rather than physical or worldly power.

Key Points:

• Historical examples of physical strength (Samson, Alexander the Great, Mike Tyson) demonstrate that without self-control, strength leads to downfall.
• Self-control is described as a spiritual battle and essential to Christian character.
• Temperance extends beyond avoiding intoxication; it includes managing all appetites, passions, emotions, and behaviors.

Examples of Lack of Self-Control:

• Overeating and snacking without hunger.
• Substance abuse (alcohol, drugs).
• Interrupting conversations and impatience.
• Chronic busyness without boundaries.
• Digital overconsumption and compulsive social media use.
• Emotional spending and overcommitment to ministry.
• Gossiping under the guise of prayer requests.
• Emotional reactivity and inability to be still or quiet.
• Habitually being late and selfishness.

Biblical Foundations:

• Temperance is one of the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).
• It is pivotal in Christian growth (2 Peter 1:5-7).
• Paul’s admonition to Felix about righteousness and temperance (Acts 24).

Practical Application:

• Self-control is linked to looking beyond immediate gratification towards future consequences.
• It is essential for maintaining a clear mind to understand spiritual truth.
• Demonstrates Christian witness through good works and behavior.
• Prepares believers for final tests of faith and obedience.

Tips for Developing Self-Control (Acronym: STRONGER)

• S: Self-inventory—regular reflection and journaling about struggles and triggers.
• T: Truth—meditate on Scripture verses that strengthen resolve.
• R: Remove temptations—avoid situations that lead to failure.
• O: Observe Jesus—study His example of self-control.
• N: No (set boundaries)—learn to say no without guilt.
• G: Give moment—pause before reacting emotionally.
• E: Encourage accountability—partner with others for support.
• R: Realistic goals—start small and reward progress.

Encouragement:

• Self-control is a choice we make daily; it can be strengthened like a muscle with practice and prayer.
• Prayer alone isn’t enough without cultivating self-discipline.
• The ultimate strength comes from reliance on Jesus, who helps believers overcome temptation.

4. Closing Prayer and Hymns

• The service concludes with prayers asking for strength to overcome temptations and live temperate lives.
• Closing hymns such as “I Need Thee Every Hour” and “Showers of Blessing” reinforce dependence on God’s grace and blessing.

Overall Message

The service beautifully integrates worship, community announcements, and a powerful sermon focusing on the importance of self-control as true strength in Christian life. Self-control is essential for spiritual growth, effective witness, and preparation for Christ’s return. Practical advice combined with biblical principles encourages believers to cultivate temperance through God’s help.

Recommended Further Study

• Galatians 5:22-23 (Fruit of the Spirit)
• 2 Peter 1:5-7 (Christian virtues progression)
• Proverbs 25:28 (Self-control analogy)
• 1 Corinthians 9:25 (Self-discipline for an imperishable crown)
• Study Ellen G. White’s writings on temperance for deeper insight into its spiritual significance.